Why Do I Keep Trying To Change The World?....It Has To Be An Age Thing....
I've just looked at what I wrote and realize that I am not plainly wording how I feel...I am not trying to change the world, I am just trying to advice youth who are completely screwing it up to take note of life...That it isn't what it seems...That each day you learn and one day is different than the other...My only problem is that I have hit a dead end...On one subject I have failed...More than anything I believe it is an aging thing that they can't accept....It seems as if one of their members has it right that they then all fall in step behind it....Makes no sense, but so goes life....Truthfully at this point I neither know or care...
In the last few weeks I have tried my hand at posting at one of the many marriage sites on the web...This I have done only because at ehealth I give sex and marriage a wide berth...This is not because I do not have a vast knowledge of each of them, but because there are other Mods and people that want to speak their thoughts on life too...This site I speak about is different...Very well run and moderated yet it is a male oriented site...From being there the few times I have, I get the feeling that it is church type building (if I could put it in a type of building) where women are to sit in the back pews....My problem being I am a front seat person...Very seldom is there a woman who truly says something that says anything...Just the same thing over and over...Thus I belong there as much as a case of the plague....Today I was going to do a post on some man that was having a hard time with his relationship with his wife...He was not pleasing her enough and I am not sure just where he was going with his questions, but I do know that they have their waiting line for answers...I guess more than anything with the site I get the feeling that women should be seen and not heard.....So you can see it sure is not my kind of ballpark....
I did this post and then pulled back...Why finish it?...Why waste my words....Why give them something that I should have here or on my ehealth Forum....That is the one I love...Oh, how I love answering health questions....It definitely is my forte...
"When a man marries a woman and wants a hot sex life he must marry his version of one hot woman...She must be equal to his lust...Two versions of libido do not match...They are who they are...With two in lust they must keep it alive...She must bend..If he wants to play ping pong when the kids are asleep downstairs, she should join him in this game of closeness...Try it with night clothes and it makes it more interesting...Soon you are both nude and the man and woman of yesterday are there at that same place of erotic happiness...These things must not die...As a woman ages she gets more erotic...Sexually she turns into a bombshell...Very often she realizes this and wants something that she has never known...She wants a new filling and she will either turn it off or turn it on with her partner...What you are seeing is a discontented woman...One who does not find the sexual satisfaction that she needs..."
This was as far as I got and then reread it and wondered why should I do this...I never finished it and could have gone on and on helping women and men, but why?....They have their old stand bye's and why try to burst their balloon...Hell, they wouldn't know it anyway....Some of these older jokers come on the site and think they are Kinsey...Gonna change the world...They think they know what they do not know, yet this does not shut them up....I guess more than anything this is why I am happy I have my site...I would not want to be in a free for all with no holds barred....So back home I go...I do love ehealth....Take care, Caroline...
I just deleted everything from my account and have come back home...Close knit bunch....Weird...