***Infidelity, An Affair Or Maybe I Should Say "Same Time Next Year" ***
This is such an interesting subject...I only wish that I would have been able to get into the conversation at the Forum with the real me coming out....However, I have to watch what I say...I do understand this, but when people were giving so many negative comments about a marriage ending I did post something like this:
"If the marriage is strong and the love is deep, anything can be overcome...What has happened is difficult for not one, but both parties...He suffers as she suffers....They both must heal....However, I believe that in the end that the marriage will be stronger than it has ever been...A short affair or a one night stand should not break a good marriage....It is the love and understanding that is shown between these two people in putting it back together that counts..True love can win out...Then you truly have a love story....IMO, they will be closer than they have ever been....For they have nearly lost each other.... "
My problem in writing this is that I am against the world...Most everyone believes that the marriage should end....Yet I wonder what if the love was strong with them to start?...What is a mistake is made and the partner is sorry?...All I can think of is what if years ago he had that affair on me and slept with her could I have ever let him go?....And the answer is no....I just plain adore him...
One of our favorite movies is Ellen Burstyn and Alan Alda as Doris and George in "Same Time Next Year"...To me this is one of the most romantic movies that I have ever seen....If you can imagine a couple of our age, then take us back and bring us forward...This is who we are...I adore him and he adores me...We are hot and I mean hot...It was just the other day after we made love that comments were made...We were sitting and watching TV with the puppies in the evening......I was still so alive with the thrill of penetration and the glowing of warmth between my legs that I had a hard time keeping from smiling......You see earlier that day, this stud that I am married to, wouldn't even let me finish going to the bathroom before he started on me...I was sitting there when he came in and stood in front of me...Just the movements of his love for me or the memory of his crawling back in bed naked had awakened me wanting him...But I pleaded with him.."honey, give me a chance for a little coffee".. 
...He did this and brought it to me...Next came my trip to the bathroom...Never in my life would I have thought that sitting on a toilet and sucking a man off who is standing in front of you, would be as erotic and full of passion as it was......Talk about sexual want...God, we are sick...Yet what followed in bed was the end result of all the feelings that we have for each other...We are pure love without any added bells and whistles needed....We are who God made us to be and who we will be until the day we die...
Later that night words were spoken that are pretty heavy...We were just sitting and talking about the day day that we had just created... I brought up the movie "Same Time, Next Year"..that we had recently seen....I said to him if years ago that I would have met you, and you and I had been married to another, I couldn't have resisted you....I just adore you...We have this magic between us...It is like a magnetic field....He agreed that it was more than love at first sight....We both agreed that we would have had that affair....Like we are doing now, we would have met every year to fu*k our brains out.....If anyone can understand this, that is how big that this is....With God as my witness, I mean it...Much love to all...Caroline