Do Men Love Sexual Foreplay On Them As Much As We Do???? Could This Be A Reason For Their lack Of Wanting Sex As They Age???
If there is one thing that I have noticed in the four years, since I have discovered and been on the Internet, it that so many of the men who wonder where that girl that they married was...Sometimes she seems like a stranger....It seemed that she had disappeared.....They speak of the one that used to give them a blow job and go down on them....That hot babe that greeted them with a kiss...Being truthful, I, too, was one of them years ago....Yet for some unknown reason after you are married and especially after kids, the many things that used to be important fall into a different category in your mind....It seems that so often your husband is the one that wants sex and you are the unwilling participant that has to be made willing...I have often wondered what happens to us during this time in life?...If we are not in the mood, we will play some kind of an often ending "not tonight dear" game in life...This is called "going through the motions".....Maybe sometimes even a quick gasp to simulate orgasm...Dam, pretty soon you find that you have got that gasp down pat....I am sure that many of you are nodding your head as you read this because it is true.....I think the words I am hearing from many are "been there and done that".....
I am afraid that when we were younger that my husband just plain got used to an occasional "playing with his sexual parts" and very rarely some sucking...I was selfish....Not proud of it, but I was....Over the years I got better and sex started to be perfected...I also believe that as we age we come into a new sexual awakening of ourselves....It is a part of us that we have never known before...This alone has made it so difficult for me to talk on Forums and especially with only the younger generation frequenting them...They think I am one of the "over the hill gang" and I, in turn, know that they have only just begun....Saying this, I have posted my last post on a Forum...I am doing this thread and will answer posts in it, but will not answer another post here or at any other Forum...This is, with the exception of my site....I find that only being able to speak about myself and my knowledge of life and the sexuality of a woman, can I write the way I do....Oh, I see people that try and imitate what I write, but they do not truly understand the words that they are putting down...I do, and this is the difference......
I find that it is only now with seeing the black and white words on posts, that I can truly see the failures in progress...A man will sexually die off if he isn't stimulated enough...He will forget to remember the hot stud that he is...It will become just one of the duties that he has in life and he will get tired of this duty...He is the slave....She is his master....Because of this lack of being wanted and loved, he now falls into the rapidly forming line to the left, for the much needed drug called Viagra...It is not necessarily that he needs it, but that he has forgotten to remember what a wonderful sexual creature he is and was... All this because she has let him forget to remind him with her hands and mouth of how much he is loved and cherished....When you think about this, what a terrible waste of a man's sexual prowess and she is the one who will eventually pay the price....But, she doesn't know it yet....This will be her surprise as she ages and wants what he cannot do from loss of stimulation........
When I changed my husband over from Viagra four years ago, it was only after my own discovery of life and what women can do to their man....Selfish, yes....Unaware, definitely...and many just happy that this part of their life is over....Seeing that I have always been overly sexual in our relationship, I just plain turned it on....Never stopped....Not forcing him in any way, but adoring him with my eyes, words and deeds....Never an act of pressure, but an act of adoration....I was able to do what I did because I am very sexual at this age...Many women can't as they just plain don't know how to be a sexual woman...Ask them to be a Porn Queen and they will freeze....A man needs this in his life to stay a hot man...He didn't marry the Virgin Mary and wants a hot mama in bed with him....So many women don't want to perform this magic on a man, yet when they want sex they cry that it wasn't their fault...Like the heck it wasn't...They created this house that they live in....I once asked a doctor even if a man is on medication that could involve his potency, couldn't a sexual woman bring him to life?.....I guess you all know the answer.....It was YES....
I have convinced my husband of what a sexual stud he is......My eyes tell him this every minute of the day....Oh, I am not trying to bed him down all the time, but flirting with him......Making time with my own mate.....Never forgetting to remember that what I do with my hands and mouth at this time, make this tiger come alive.......Much love to all, Caroline....
